Your Role as a Parent during your Dancer’s Photography Session
As a dance parent, you've been there for the early morning rehearsals, the countless hours at the studio, and the proud tears during performances. But when it comes to a dance photography session, your role shifts slightly—and it can make all the difference in how your dancer feels and how their photos turn out.
Photography sessions are a big deal for dancers. It’s their moment to shine, to capture all the strength, grace, and personality they’ve worked so hard to develop. And while it might seem like your job is to just get them there on time and hold the extra costumes, your presence and energy during the session play a much more meaningful role.
Here’s how you can show up as the best support system for your dancer during their shoot:
1. Be Their Advocate
Photographers are artists too—and while I personally may specialize in dance photography, every dancer is unique. Before the session starts, take a few minutes to communicate with me about what your dancer is hoping to capture. Whether it’s clean lines, emotion, favorite tricks, or storytelling moments, sharing this insight helps me tailor the session to your dancer’s strengths and goals.
You know your child better than anyone. Speak up if something feels off or if you sense your dancer isn’t comfortable with a certain pose or setup. Your calm, respectful communication can help keep the session flowing in a positive direction and as your photographer, I am here for the both of you!
2. Lead with Positivity, Not Perfectionism
We know it’s easy to get caught up in wanting everything to look just right. But sometimes, in our effort to be helpful, our words come out more critical than we intend. A misplaced comment like, “Your foot wasn’t pointed!” or “You always mess that leap up” can quickly chip away at your dancer’s confidence—and it will show in the photos.
Instead, be their cheerleader. Offer encouragement. Tell them how proud you are. Celebrate the little wins. A confident dancer is a radiant dancer, and that energy is what creates truly stunning photos.
3. Trust the Process
Photography sessions are often a mix of trial and error. Some poses may need multiple takes. Some expressions won’t land perfectly. That’s okay. I am there to capture moments—not perfection. Give space for your dancer to explore and express themselves, and resist the urge to over-direct or micro-manage from the sidelines.
Let the photographer guide the session. They’re watching for angles, lighting, lines, and emotion. Your job? To be a calming, uplifting presence in the room.
4. Create a Safe Space for Expression
Your dancer is likely feeling a mix of nerves and excitement. When they know you're in their corner—supporting them without judgment—they’ll feel freer to take risks, show vulnerability, and try bold movements. That kind of emotional safety fosters creativity and leads to more authentic, beautiful images.
In the End, It’s About Capturing Who They Are
Remember: This session is about your dancer’s growth, their artistry, and their passion. These images will be something they look back on with pride, and your role in that memory matters.
So take a deep breath, trust your dancer, and enjoy the experience. Your encouragement, understanding, and advocacy can turn a regular shoot into an empowering moment your dancer will never forget.
Much love,
Heidi Cay
